360TAP 4Relationships
360TAP 4Relationships is learning about moving forward without
hurting yourself, your partner, and your children (when applicable) – and that matters so so much!
Today, and long-term.
CoupleUP or UNCouple? This can be scary - but I'm a straight shooter, ya'll!
If you spend your days and nights unhappy and suffering within a relationship, I believe this may be your program!
I've had much success helping couples to first look at the SELF in the 1st 6 weeks, and then in the 2nd 6 weeks, bringing that
information of Self forward and sharing with your partner with the loving support of a coach / facilitator. I work with you on communication styles and what feels good and comfortable for you individually...
This is a 12-week program, meeting weekly and due to the intensity of the program you'll also have 24/7 access to me.
Shit or get off the pot is what I'm suggesting! Smile!
With that said, I guarantee you one thing – divorce doesn’t ruin lives – the energy before,
during, and after within the HOME is what ruins lives.
The teachings available in 360TAP 4Relationships clean up and help people realize and have compassion for their personal contribution to the success (or end) of a relationship. These coaching conversations help with teachings and concepts around
responding vs. Insta-Racting™ by design (a.k.a choice) and moving forward without
hurting yourself, your partner, and your children if applicable – and that matters so so much!
Someone can be walking around silently in a household thinking “I can’t stand him” or “she makes me crazy”, OR, OR, OR… Ain't that the truth!
Another scenario in relationships is often one partner has NO IDEA how jacked up the relationship is or how truly unhappy the other partner is - or sometimes they do know and have NO IDEA what to do. I can tell you, what they DO know is that the energy
isn’t and hasn’t been like it was in the beginning for a very long time.
The energy is different.
We will delve into “how the hey” did this happen and “how the hey” can it be addressed and course-corrected?
If your partner were to ask, “You seem different – is something going on?” you’d get that
resounding "nope, I’m fine".
This kind of thing can go on for years… You know it and I know it.
The other resounding pattern I witness is what I call "same shit, different day". That's where you try your best
to discuss matters (aka talk things out); and end up in the same patterns of things like...storming out, shutting down,
not being heard, not listened to, can't finish a sentence, stone-walling, mean-spiriitedness, etc.
The reason we get stuck and/or project these feelings is...
1) We don’t understand feelings and emotions thoroughly - and
2) We dang sure don’t know how to communicate with feelings and emotions with ease - and
3) We don’t really want to cause more harm so we shut down or become despondent, etc.
It’s kind of like the old saying, “if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.”
Which isn't a bad rule of thumb, however, not it's not really going to serve us in union.
Again, this cannot go on or continue to work for couples long-term.
There must be a safe and Sacred way to evaluate your feelings, emotions and communicate them without blame and shame.
In 360TAP 4Relationships we get that stuff out on the table privately and individually first because it's different for each person.
Real, soulful clarity, heartfelt clarity, and conversational clarity come forward when we come forward with our detective hat on
and examine ourselves first. The program is designed to examine and provides support in communicating the challenges with me first, and once clear, somewhat confident about your feelings and emotions, then communicating in a loving way
from our core essence to our partners core essence is possible.
Takes a little practice, patience and consistency, however, very possible.
I will oversee and support of all of the transitions via one-on-one coaching conversations and for the most part you'll
witness your partner speaking to me and then through me to you.
Which creates a safe and Sacred essence or space for understanding, clarity and compassion with your witness hat on...
Being a creator in a human body isn’t easy for any of us. With that said…you are a part of what you created in this relationship.
And, I will be asking you to take 97% responsibility for that - even if you have to pretend for a bit.
Your life, your history, beliefs, points of view, and ways of seeing things are all built within your personal experiences
from birth to now, how you perceived the experiences, and the story you tell about the experiences.
All are integral parts of you knowing yourself and your partner thoroughly...
Sometimes judgements in our thoughts creep forward and cause a vibrational mismatch within yourself, and then
ultimately within your connection and communication with your partner.
This cycle continues until you reach out for help - OR end up with the UNcouple hat on.
There is one thing necessary for sure... you have to be open and willing to
change which includes a shit load of homework at first.
Change has nothing to do with your partner.
You CANNOT change your partner and end up happily ever after.
You can however change YOU and end up happily ever after
OR happily even after.
I DON'T pussy-foot around. Being miserable, feeling unheard, and unloved is the worst thing for your mind, body, and
Soul that there is. To bring that into the lives of children (if applicable) is a monstrosity - an unnecessary monstrosity.
Living a life that is miserable, depressing and suppressing will suck the "life" out of you.
I know you can feel that - it is extremely hard on the physical body and often causes the onset of disease
(my personal spin, and please NOTE I'm not a doctor, this comes from years of experience personally and professionally)
This program gives you tools that change the dynamics of the energy in you and in the energy you bring to the room.
I’ll never back away from any of the above that I see as "truth".
If your life matters – you’ll invest in YOU, you'll invest your TIME in the improvement tools provided here.
I'll also add at this time, if you are divorced OR have gone through a severe break-up and it's
still lingering (a.k.a hurting or pissing you off) you'll want to get that shit
cleaned up before you drag that suitcase into another relationship.
Nothing good can come out of old baggage. Period.
360TAP 4Relationships is SOUL unique and it is an experience so incredibly individual to your specific needs and then deeply
specific for your relationship challenges and how each of you feel and communicate your feelings and emotions.
360TAP 4Relationships is about stability and a knowing that it all has nothing to do
with any person, place or thing outside of self - including your partner.
If you've read this far...you're probably ready for a Break-Through OR a Break-Up!
I'm not attached to either.
I'm just asking that you, get in, do the work, and see and decide together via real conversations
while I provide tools and "stand-by" support for the real choice of whether to CoupleUP or UNcouple!
If your mind replays what your heart can't delete. It is time!
Pricing: 360TAP 4Relationships is $4200 (Couples Price) OR $2100 (Singles Price)
A price increase is happening soon as I transition to a NEW platform for my website. I will be updating pricing as well...
(This program does include the work from 360TAP Signature Program individually within the first 6 weeks and you'll work
as a couple the second 6 weeks.) Average time investment is 1 hour a week first 6 weeks PLUS homework (est. 4 hours a week) and 2 hours a week 2nd 6 weeks together as a couple (est. 4 hours homework per week). It is a 12 week program total.
I do allow 3 missed weeks or reschedules due to funerals, weddings, work schedules, etc. This is a progressive program and sessions should flow back-to-back, as each tie into the next and will need to be very consistent for maximum on-going up-leveling and growth.
NOTE: If you are a graduate of 360TAP (must be within 6 months) please call, text, or email for approval
and a pricing adjustment! 1.479.633.GROW (4769)
PS: I've made a great testimonial page if you'd like to check out here at "a word from the herd".
NOTE: I DO NOT use names along with my testimonials due to the sensitive subject matter around trauma work.